Senkyo
The boat club didn’t have locker rooms. The guys
changed in the boathouse, giving me a full clear view of their underwear and a
full understanding of their conversations. The boathouse talk was frequently
lewd. 99.9% of the time, the lewdness was about girls I only knew by name, if
that, in different majors, so I let it be. But I do remember that even when it
was lewd, it was always about how the girls were throwing themselves at the rowers because of their impressive looks/ athleticism/ major/ future prospects/ (ahem)
technique (and I’m not talking about rowing), and how (ahem) good they’d made
the girls feel with the (ahem) technique (again, not about rowing). It wasn’t
about how they’d forced the girls to do things they didn’t want to do. It was
about how desirable they were as men (or how desirable they THOUGHT they were)
and what the girls WANTED (supposedly) to do with them because they were
desirable (supposedly).
And I’m keeping this anonymous (notice I’ve
never mentioned the school I rowed for by name) because it isn’t fair to
discuss stuff about what people said more than ten years ago.
(What people DID
ten years ago is another matter entirely.)
I was once in a position where I was professionally
and legally obliged to do my job for the benefit of a convicted criminal. The
crime was of the very worst sort. The man was polite and charming. I did my
best. I failed. He was very nice about it. I didn’t mean to fail. I went in there fully intending to
do my job successfully. So, I don’t think it’s right to fault a court appointed
lawyer for doing her job properly.
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